Looking Good for Your Date: A Man’s Guide to Dressing Well for an Escort
Most men think looking good is optional.
It isn’t.
Not when you’re meeting a woman who dresses specifically for you, after all you still want to impress her also, and has spent enough hours around men to know exactly who’s put effort in and who hasn’t.
Escorts don’t care how handsome you are — but they absolutely care how you show up.
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If you walk in looking sharp, smelling good, and carrying yourself with confidence? The entire energy of the night shifts. And yes — she will give you a far better version of herself.
This isn’t vanity.
This is strategy.
And this guide will show you exactly how to nail it.
The Following “Rules” Should Help You Impress
1. Dress Like a Man Who Knows What He’s Doing
- You don’t need to dress expensively.
- You need to dress intentionally.
The rules are simple:
- Wear clothes that fit you.
- Not tight. Not baggy. Just clean and shaped to your frame.
- Avoid loud logos or novelty clothing.
- She’s not meeting up with a billboard.
- Choose clean, timeless pieces.
- Dark trousers. Fitted shirts. Knits. A good jacket.
Look like you thought about it for more than eight seconds.
Because she did.
These basics beat designer logos every time.
2. Where to Shop in London (From High Street to High End)
Don't overcomplicate it. London already has the perfect shops for men who want to look good without looking like they’ve tried too hard.
High Street (Effortless Style Done Well)
- COS - Clean silhouettes, minimalist cuts, perfect for modern dates.
- Massimo Dutti - Classic, masculine, European style. Great fits.
- Reiss - Your go-to for jackets, knitwear, and polished casual outfits.
- AllSaints - If your vibe is darker, sharper, more “evening in London.”
Mid–High End (When You Want to Look Decent Without Flashing Cash)
- Hugo Boss - Reliable tailoring, crisp shirts, evening jackets that always work.
- Rag & Bone - Modern, understated luxury.
- Paul Smith - British style with personality, without going overboard.
- Selfridges Men’s Floor - Everything in one place — from Acne Studios to Tom Ford.
High End (If You’re Taking a VIP Escort Out)
- Tom Ford - The king of men’s eveningwear. The fit alone is worth it.
- Dunhill - Sharp British tailoring. Women notice this instantly.
- Saint Laurent - Slim, sexy, rock-leaning styles perfect for a night in Mayfair.
- Brunello Cucinelli - Soft luxury, cashmere, neutral tones. Effortlessly elite.
3. Groom Like a Man She’d Actually Sit Close To
You don’t need spa days.
Just basic adult grooming.
- Nails - Clean, short, no dirt - Escorts judge this more than you think.
- Beard - Trimmed. Edges tidy. No “accidental beard.”
- Hair - Haircut within 10 days. Not three weeks.
- Skin - Moisturise. Dry skin looks tired.
- Breath - Huge - Brush, mouthwash, gum in the taxi. Never in the room.
4. Smell Like a Man — Not a Teenager at a Club
Scent is one of the biggest deal-makers on an escort date.
And in London right now?
Oud is king.
Here are the fragrances escorts consistently react well to:
High-End Winners
- Tom Ford Oud Wood — seductive, warm, masculine.
- Louis Vuitton Ombre Nomade — deep oud, unmistakably expensive.
- Creed Aventus — still one of the most complimented scents ever made.
- Maison Francis Kurkdjian BR 540 — sweet, addictive, women love it.
- Tom Ford Tobacco Vanille — perfect for winter nights and hotel bars.
Mid-Range Hits
- YSL Tuxedo — smooth, sexy, balanced.
- Bleu de Chanel Parfum — universal, clean, always works.
Spray Count:
2 sprays.
3 maximum.
Any more and you smell like panic.
5. What Escorts Actually Look At (And What They Secretly Hate)
This is straight from real conversations with some of the London escorts in our gallery:
Shoes
- Any woman, paid or otherwise, will ALWAYS look down at your shoes first.
- Polished leather = good sign.
- Scruffy trainers = you didn’t try.
Posture
- Stand up straight. Shoulders relaxed.
- Instant improvement – great life lesson there.
Effort
If she’s in heels, makeup, expensive lingerie and a dress she picked just for you…
You showing up in sportswear is an insult.
Over-sprayed aftershave
They despise it.
Ironing
If your shirt looks slept in, the date is mentally over.
Clean mouth
The number one dealbreaker.
Escorts remember their best clients.
And they remember the men who presented themselves well.
6. Why Looking Good Changes the Entire Booking
Men think escorts don’t care.
They’re wrong.
Looking good does three things instantly:
- She relaxes - A well-presented man feels safe and respectful.
- She becomes more natural - You’re not “work” anymore — you’re enjoyable company.
- You get a version of her most men will never see - Because she wants to give it.
- If you look like you made an effort, she mirrors it - If you show up careless, she keeps distance and wont let herselfe fully relax.
It’s cause and effect.
7. How to Carry Yourself When You Meet Her
This is the final layer:
- Arrive on time.
- Smile.
- Make proper eye contact.
- Greet her confidently but calmly.
- No bragging.
- Don’t talk money.
- Don’t get loud in public.
- Relax your shoulders.
- Let her speak and bounce off your energy.
Men ruin dates by trying too hard or not trying at all.
Stay in the middle — relaxed, steady, masculine.
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And Here’s the Part Men Never Want to Hear
No woman cares if you’re a ten out of ten.
They care if you’re put together, have the correct money and are polite
Escorts see every type of man — young, older, athletic, not athletic, handsome, average. None of that decides whether the night goes well.
What matters is how you show up:
- Clean.
- Sharp.
- Polite.
- Confident.
- Well-mannered.
- Smelling good.
- Dressed properly.
- Respectful.
She’s not judging your face — she’s judging the effort.
She’s not obsessed with your body — she’s checking your presence.
And if you handle yourself well, she’ll give you a date most men never experience.
Look decent.
Carry yourself properly.
Treat her well.
Do that, and the night tends to take care of itself.